Dads, Make Out Time to Read To Your children.

Dads are playing a larger role in encouraging reading in the home. Learn why it's important for children to see dads reading aloud. 

Close your eyes and imagine a child cuddled in her parent’s lap, sharing a book. Did you envision the parent as a mother? Because mothers have been the “traditional” caregivers, we often jump to the conclusion that they should be the family’s primary readers.

More and more, fathers are playing a larger role in encouraging reading in the home. It’s critical for children to see both parents reading – and enjoying – books. 

Why should Dads read aloud?

• Reading together creates emotional and physical (tickling, hugging, cuddling) bonds with children. Fathers who read have closer relationships with their children than those who do not.
• Books keep Dads involved, especially Dads who are at work all day. Children often develop inside jokes and special voices through reading aloud. When Dads read, they get involved in their children’s language development – and feel more included in family conversation.
• Fathers often use several voices, tones, volumes, and special sounds when they read aloud. Dads make reading fun! It’s important for children to hear several voices to increase their comprehension and be entertained by books.
• Dads are often interested in different subjects. They’re likely to choose new books that will expose kids to a whole new range of topics and perspectives. Plus, reading will create common interests for the future (such as sports or cars) between a father and a child.
• Fathers who read become especially great role models for their sons. Boys are more likely than girls to read below grade level. Dads who read make boys want to spend more time with books. Research shows that boys with Dads who read aloud score higher in reading achievement than those who don’t.
• Reading aloud is inexpensive, doesn’t take much time, and helps create memories that will last a lifetime!
  

Read Aloud Tips for Dads

Life is busy and it’s not always easy to find quiet time to read with your children. Or, if children are used to play time with Dad, they may resist reading as an activity. We’ve come up with some great ways to help fathers enjoy reading with their children.

• Plan “Dad” field trips to the library or bookstore! Children will look forward to these special occasions!
• Make it fun! Use a sticker chart to keep track of number of books/minutes of reading with Dad.
• Establish traditions. Choose certain “Daddy” books that become part of the bedtime ritual.
• Be aware of your own screen time. If children see you constantly in front of a television or computer, or staring at your phone, they ‘ll think it’s OK to do the same.
• Find a special place in your house to read – such as a comfy armchair – just for you and your child.
• Make reading come alive. Act out scenes of books, or do activities (sports, crafts, cooking) together based on what you read. Dads love to play!
• Enjoy your own reading for pleasure. If you’re in the habit of reading, it will become more natural for you to spend time reading to your children.

source: www.pampers.com.ng