Ways To Fix A Sexless Marriage

There's no drama, no fighting. You've been together for years, raised kids. The love is still there, but the spark just isn't. As months drift into years, you realize: You're in a sexless marriage.

Most married couples don't really know what to expect of a long-term relationship.

Below are a few ideas on how to go about fixing your sexless marriage.

Get yourself physically examined by a doctor
Lack of inclination towards sex could be because of any medical reason and can be treated medically. It is very important to get sexless marriage help, however when spouses show different levels of interest in sex. Distress, resentment, and a sense of betrayal or deprivation, can crumble a couple’s affection, and their marriage can become at risk for survival.

Lack of Communication
Couples don’t talk about sex. It’s as if we believe sex is an action you take but not a subject you discuss. It is healthy to let your spouse know what you do and don’t like when it comes to the sex act. It is also healthy to let your partner know if you are less than satisfied with your sexual relationship. More sex talk can lead to more sex in the marriage.

Eliminating stress from your home
Particularly in the bedroom, it is very essential your bedroom is made a peaceful and relaxing place by moving out all form of distractions, e.g laptops, newspapers, office files, any sports equipment etc. The bedroom environment can really affect you and your partner's mood, so keep the bedroom clutter free as much as possible.

Fall in Love Again
Outside the bedroom, you must make time for each other. "If you're bored, you can figure your partner is probably bored too. A very useful sexless marriage advice for women and men is to bring the romance back in your married life. So go on dates. If you have kids, arrange for a baby sitter to take care of them when you go out for dinner with your spouse. Do fun things together, try adventurous sports, take some hobby classes together, and basically do things to bring the passion, excitement and togetherness back in your marriage. A good idea here would be to seek marriage counseling. Also, do not ever blame your partner for this situation. Both of you should equally take responsibility and solve this relationship issue together.

Trying something new requires a lot of focus -- and that's good for your sex life. "It's like when you had kids, or bought your first house. People actually fall in love again."